I went through a depressive state because of the expectations I placed on my family. Unfortunately, and painfully, I had to remove myself and abandon the picture perfect family image I had in mind. I had to accept I cant control their actions.
This was a refreshing conversation that illuminated some not so good core beliefs and perspectives that were developed and normalized in my childhood and carried into my adulthood. Relating to the physical discomfort, and high jacked central nervous system and then getting to a place of awareness and regulation to only to return to the “familiar “. This conversation is beyond helpful and has created a deeper interest in creating a new experience for myself. Thank you! 🙏🏾
Sure thing! When it comes to relationships and love, podcasts can cover a wide range of topics like communication, trust, self-love, and even dating advice. It's fascinating how different hosts and guests share their experiences and expertise in these areas.
most people don't understand that affection is more important in a relation, and before you inter into other relationship you nee to put your past behind you...
Self love (celibacy is like a factory reset), learn self, care and appreciate self (mind, body, soul) THEN identify workable hardline boundaries, but loose expectations, its not about them, its about you. (still solo/clear headed) THEN stride in your own identity, without needing any help. THEN, you'll attract. A Stanfofd Psychologist Dr. Bandura said "Peoples beliefs about their abilities have a profound impact on those abilities, ability is not a fixed property, there is a huge variability in how you perform. People who have a sense of self-efficacy bounce back from failures. They approach things in terms with how to handle them rather than worrying about what can go wrong." As well that Self-efficacy can be learned by way of learning any new competencies. Optimism and Hope can be learned through self efficacy, by way of confidence which builds resilience.
Also, everyone naturally has biases and prejudices, the first step in fixing a problem is identifying it in the first place. You have to identify your biases and suspend them in order to try to be fair and impartial in judgement of others.
You have both changed my life...and now realizing I played a huge part in it too with my daily choices to grow and understand myself, I am forever grateful to you both
It never ceases to amaze me how even though you have all the right information and all the tools necessary for your growth and healing, it takes another one hearing or retelling of a situation you can relate to so much that it enlightens you. And then you start thinking how did I not think about it before from this perspective? 🥹🙏🏻 very helpful podcast 🤍
❤Absolutely loved this podcast ❤.... 2 very knowledgeable people , sharing insightful information to help us navigate ourselves while on this journey ❤❤❤ I thank you 🙏🏽 Much Love ❤️ and Beautiful Blessings ✨ 🥰✨
These book-promoting podcasts are lengthy and although the topics are relevant many lack actionable steps one can take in a situation. Great topic here and spot-on questions from Jay but I heard more self-disclosure examples than "what can I do" answers. Ex: @7:50
I first found these on Amazon music and didn't know I could see the people as they were speaking, nor interact here with the comments! Finding out both of these IS my blessing and gratitude today :)
As I try to navigate these waters of our divorce process I find that I am learning so much. I pushed therapy so much because I thought a lot of this stuff I am learning through different podcasts would help us come together to see eye to eye on some things. Maybe not even eye to eye but different ways to handle things. Its so sad that we couldn't save or fix our marriage because of possible trauma and things we both needed to unlearn. :(
Some of the topics, it felt like the talk about love languages, how we have identified love in childhood and how we try to find that same language in our relationship
Great-video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment.
I truly think that people need to get to know and love themselves before they can love anyone else. If you don't know yourself, how can you love anyone? 🌿
Hey jay, i am waching your videos, its very informative and i am seeing your video to learn English, i am sure most of the indian is seeing your video for same purpose, could u please add subtitles in your videos if it possible. It will very helpful to us.
As bible says, know yourself first. Meaning search our hearts from childhood, adulthood, all the way up, search it carefully, and be venerable about it,there is healing by being venerable, so that the relationship afterwards would fixed.
I really appreciate the content in this podcast 💟 Nevertheless, the constant gesticulation is very distracting. It’s like watching charades 🙌 ✋ 🫱 👋 Going forward I would like to see speakers (podcasters, politicians, preachers etc) tone down the gestures.
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children massive tragedy in Georgia they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all .
Jesus Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all....
Hello sir, I am Viraj Chandra from India, my greetings to you, I will make all your videos in my language Hindi and you do not have to lose copyright in the videos uploaded by me on RUclips, due to which your videos will become quite popular here too, if you agree. So reply yes sir
My husband has threaten to kill me he has said it to many times he has put his hands around my throat on several times i don't trust him at all things i felt in the spirit and suspect about his sexuality yes i need to get out moving in silence calling family members i cut off to come and get me
Update alleuia Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for neighbor Debbie she was suffering from brain tremors she is improving taking meds all test so far normal Drs are thinking tremors are not life threatening she is very Thankful to God and continue prayers please pray for her and family God bless you all
I find it hard to follow her because the amount of words doesn't match the simple ideas she's conveying...I’d prefer a more structured and simpler approach, rather than long-winded discussions that cover multiple points without real impact.
I used to really like Jay, but fro a while now something seems to be off and he looks more and more like an opportunist. Not to mention, I don't want to take any advice from a person advising J.Lo & Ben Afleck, or Jada & Will 🤷♀
lool you can't blame a mentor for the outcomes of their clients. We're all deeply flawed, working through our own ways. Sometimes we need people to guide us, advise us, or simply to listen to us. You don't know what services he is providing and the extent/ impact of his work. Maybe he helped those couples you're talking about to finally split cause they were deeply insecure and not a good fit to begin with😅 we can't judge things we don't know
Dr Nicole is a gift. Grateful to exist at the same time as you both. A very insightful listen.
I used to think that too. I followed her work, but overtime you realize how unhinged and unhealed she is
Wow, I randomly came onto RUclips and saw this premiere. This is exactly what I need.
So happy to hear that!
I went through a depressive state because of the expectations I placed on my family. Unfortunately, and painfully, I had to remove myself and abandon the picture perfect family image I had in mind. I had to accept I cant control their actions.
You don't want that responsibility, to control someone else. But you knew this when you created this world. You just had to remember again.
@@StormShadowGFX-go5xq can you give me tips to remember? im feeling like she sis before
Same! Took me a very long time to realize we cannot change nor control their actions.
This was a refreshing conversation that illuminated some not so good core beliefs and perspectives that were developed and normalized in my childhood and carried into my adulthood. Relating to the physical discomfort, and high jacked central nervous system and then getting to a place of awareness and regulation to only to return to the “familiar “. This conversation is beyond helpful and has created a deeper interest in creating a new experience for myself. Thank you! 🙏🏾
Sure thing! When it comes to relationships and love, podcasts can cover a wide range of topics like communication, trust, self-love, and even dating advice. It's fascinating how different hosts and guests share their experiences and expertise in these areas.
most people don't understand that affection is more important in a relation, and before you inter into other relationship you nee to put your past behind you...
Resonate so much to toxic family members, and how they communicate. Thanks for uplifting my days Jay! Keep up the great work 👍😊
Self love (celibacy is like a factory reset), learn self, care and appreciate self (mind, body, soul) THEN identify workable hardline boundaries, but loose expectations, its not about them, its about you. (still solo/clear headed) THEN stride in your own identity, without needing any help. THEN, you'll attract.
A Stanfofd Psychologist Dr. Bandura said "Peoples beliefs about their abilities have a profound impact on those abilities, ability is not a fixed property, there is a huge variability in how you perform. People who have a sense of self-efficacy bounce back from failures. They approach things in terms with how to handle them rather than worrying about what can go wrong." As well that Self-efficacy can be learned by way of learning any new competencies. Optimism and Hope can be learned through self efficacy, by way of confidence which builds resilience.
Also, everyone naturally has biases and prejudices, the first step in fixing a problem is identifying it in the first place. You have to identify your biases and suspend them in order to try to be fair and impartial in judgement of others.
tysm for all
True
This is so helpful. Im going to save those advises for meditation.
I needed to see this
You have both changed my life...and now realizing I played a huge part in it too with my daily choices to grow and understand myself, I am forever grateful to you both
Thanks!
It never ceases to amaze me how even though you have all the right information and all the tools necessary for your growth and healing, it takes another one hearing or retelling of a situation you can relate to so much that it enlightens you. And then you start thinking how did I not think about it before from this perspective? 🥹🙏🏻 very helpful podcast 🤍
❤Absolutely loved this podcast ❤....
2 very knowledgeable people , sharing insightful information to help us navigate ourselves while on this journey ❤❤❤
I thank you 🙏🏽
Much Love ❤️ and Beautiful Blessings ✨ 🥰✨
These book-promoting podcasts are lengthy and although the topics are relevant many lack actionable steps one can take in a situation. Great topic here and spot-on questions from Jay but I heard more self-disclosure examples than "what can I do" answers. Ex: @7:50
I first found these on Amazon music and didn't know I could see the people as they were speaking, nor interact here with the comments! Finding out both of these IS my blessing and gratitude today :)
As I try to navigate these waters of our divorce process I find that I am learning so much. I pushed therapy so much because I thought a lot of this stuff I am learning through different podcasts would help us come together to see eye to eye on some things. Maybe not even eye to eye but different ways to handle things. Its so sad that we couldn't save or fix our marriage because of possible trauma and things we both needed to unlearn. :(
This was the best, most informative interview ever!
Its crazy how this was so helpful. I have so many notes.
I think by far this is the best episode and guest
Jay you are always here in the right time ✨
So proud of you for being on Jays show !!!
Love her philosophy!!
Every single thing talked about in this interview I could relate to! It was very insightful. Took some good notes
affection is more important
Some of the topics, it felt like the talk about love languages, how we have identified love in childhood and how we try to find that same language in our relationship
My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech and all his programs very much ❤
Dr nicole changed my life ❤ love from india❤
Wow... Jay you really asked her many questions I wanted to ask her, too. This was such an interesting conversation to me. Thank you so much. ❤
A good relationship is about equal partnership
This is my first time hearing the host of this podcast talk and I feel like he sounds just like Michael bisping
It was an important conversation and I wonder how I can enhance my life from it?
Thanks Jay, I appreciate this. 💚
Amazing, eye opening, love it 🙌🏻✨🤍
Jay Shetty, please discuss NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCES , please.
Great-video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...
Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.
Love her shirt 👍
Her vocal fry has got wayyyy better!!
I truly think that people need to get to know and love themselves before they can love anyone else. If you don't know yourself, how can you love anyone? 🌿
So well resonated Much appreciate God bless God bless God bless
I'll die of happiness if I receive a subscriber's notification 😭😭😭
Whew. The last 5 mins. Deeply resonate
put them on the freedom programme
❤ Dr. Lepere
Thankyou Lord Jesus for your great love. There is noone else who can love just like you.
Great question Jay
Hey jay, i am waching your videos, its very informative and i am seeing your video to learn English, i am sure most of the indian is seeing your video for same purpose, could u please add subtitles in your videos if it possible. It will very helpful to us.
Turn on captions. (Touch the CC icon on top tight hand side of vedio)
You can turn on captions(touch the CC icon on the video)
This will be epic one 😮👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
really great convo guys
Thank you for watching!
It’s holter monitor to check you heart beat for 24 hrs I’m into it at the moment 😢
the book that changed everything for me was Magnetic Aura from Borlest
On point! 😅
Womens issues with the dishs is also a hormonal reaction from frustration
As bible says, know yourself first. Meaning search our hearts from childhood, adulthood, all the way up, search it carefully, and be venerable about it,there is healing by being venerable, so that the relationship afterwards would fixed.
Can we get a podcast with wizardliz
What about when you have learned a script that keeps you in a toxic environment or chaos
Interesting yeah how can we be better
Emotionally Alone - That’s THE Bottom Line - Most of us are experiencing , Effecting Our mind ,body and soul
Can someone mention the book he is talking about
How to be the Love you seek!
How much longer until calling everyone and everything toxic is played out? If I’m not dead, I’ll be back after that.
I really appreciate the content in this podcast 💟
Nevertheless, the constant gesticulation is very distracting. It’s like watching charades 🙌 ✋ 🫱 👋
Going forward I would like to see speakers (podcasters, politicians, preachers etc) tone down the gestures.
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children massive tragedy in Georgia they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all
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wow thats interesting
Jesus Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all....
Amen
According to witness accounts that you can't verify.
🙄
Amen
Amen.
Bazı şeyler şeyler düzelmez evlilik iki kişiyle olur sevmek güven gibi güveni aşkı hissetmiyorsam benim zorlamamla o evlilik değil boşa oyalanmaktır
Amen 🙏🏻❤️💪🏻
Someone help me please 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. I believe someone is wrong with my relationship. I need someone to talk to but I get no one.
What happened bro?
Ok...but the dishes still need to get done>>
The script you rehearsed the most is the reality you're living
Hello sir, I am Viraj Chandra from India, my greetings to you, I will make all your videos in my language Hindi and you do not have to lose copyright in the videos uploaded by me on RUclips, due to which your videos will become quite popular here too, if you agree. So reply yes sir
99% relationship problems due to what?
My husband has threaten to kill me he has said it to many times he has put his hands around my throat on several times i don't trust him at all things i felt in the spirit and suspect about his sexuality yes i need to get out moving in silence calling family members i cut off to come and get me
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❤ be safe beautiful.human.
Hii
Update alleuia Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for neighbor Debbie she was suffering from brain tremors she is improving taking meds all test so far normal Drs are thinking tremors are not life threatening she is very Thankful to God and continue prayers please pray for her and family God bless you all
I find it hard to follow her because the amount of words doesn't match the simple ideas she's conveying...I’d prefer a more structured and simpler approach, rather than long-winded discussions that cover multiple points without real impact.
Glad I'm a loner
😂❤ a lot unknown unknown
Ben gerçek aşkı sevgiyi hissetmek yaşamak istiyorum uzun zamandır
😇
*Jay*
❤❤😊
Why do the Americans raise their voice pitch at the end of every sentence? I can’t listen.
just had derealization because of my thoughts
I thought this man was a scam man ???
I used to really like Jay, but fro a while now something seems to be off and he looks more and more like an opportunist. Not to mention, I don't want to take any advice from a person advising J.Lo & Ben Afleck, or Jada & Will 🤷♀
lool you can't blame a mentor for the outcomes of their clients. We're all deeply flawed, working through our own ways. Sometimes we need people to guide us, advise us, or simply to listen to us. You don't know what services he is providing and the extent/ impact of his work. Maybe he helped those couples you're talking about to finally split cause they were deeply insecure and not a good fit to begin with😅 we can't judge things we don't know
He looks like Indian face with white eyes
99 percent of my relationship problems have been due to diversity, equity, and inclusion.
Who sent you? This is a peculiar comment.
Palestine 🇵🇸 be free
Love it! 🦋🤍 I loved the book, too.
❤️🩹 profound
I am going through this right now, with many people 🫶
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